Sunday, March 23, 2014

Proud mommy and daddy!

Update on our little embies! 

So from my last update we had 15 little embies! After all the growing and waiting we had 11 perfect little embies, then we got a surprise phone call from our embryologist that the late bloomers caught up and were at 14 only one didn't make it. They told us how impressed they were with how they were doing and progressing. After their testing and as they prepared for the freeze we got the update we have 11 perfect embies!!! We are over the moon and are so excited! They are now snuggled in tight waiting for mommy and will be transferred sometime in April! 

In the meantime I am currently on injections again however these injections can't be given in the tummy they are in my rear end, I'm so thankful for my friend who is able to give these injections and make them pain free. Also besides injections we have decided to keep mommy stress free and calm. I am currently away from Facebook limiting phone calls and just keeping calm and relaxed! We are doing best we can to make everything go as smoothly as possible and give our sweet embie a chance! 

Back to the dr. Saturday and will update on that once we get back. 
                                             All my new meds and needles
                                              ( more coming on Tuesday)


Monday, March 17, 2014

IVF Explained

I have been getting a lot of questions regarding IVF so I thought I should write a blog on what exactly IVF is.




IVF- In Vitro Fertilization: noun
a specialized technique by which an ovum, especially a human one, is fertilized by sperm outside the body, with the resulting embryo later implanted in the uterus for gestation.
(Dictionary.com)
There 7 steps in IVF I will try to explain to my best knowledge each step so you can all understand.


 #1: Pre- Cycle work up and testing:
This phase is to understand your cycle. Tests to examine your uterus, fallopian tubes, ultrasounds, hormone testing, semen analysis and possible genetic testing. Age and past conditions may lead to more testing.


#2. Preparing for your Cycle:
during this phase some women are put on birth control having a late or delayed cycle can stop a IVF cycle. Birth control is to regulate cycle and hormones. Blood work and ultrasounds to monitor hormone levels and make sure ovaries are responding are a major part of this step in the IVF process.


#3. Stimulation:
once you are prepped and hormones are where they should be clinic will prescribe a series of hormonal treatments, this is to hyper stimulate the ovaries to produce more mature eggs than normal. The more eggs usually means higher chances of success and or additional embryos to freeze. Stimulation medication can be expensive ranging from a few hundred to ten thousand depending on medications and insurance. During this phase you are closely monitored by your Dr. you will have quite a few blood draws and ultrasounds, this is all to make sure you are stimulated just right and trigger at the correct time. Triggering is an injection that tells the eggs to undergo the final stage of maturation before they can be retrieved. Timing is so important if its off eggs may not fertilize correctly.



#4. Egg Retrieval:
After the trigger your ready for retrieval. Egg retrieval is a surgical procedure where your eggs are removed by the Dr. its done by a long needle that reaches the ovaries through the vaginal wall. The needle is attached to a ultrasound probe for guidance. They will flush each mature follicle. The fluid will be examined by a embryologist to see if it contains an egg. This is repeated until each follicle is complete. This procedure is done under anesthesia and last about 20 minutes depending on how many follicles you have.



#5: Fertilization and monitoring:
Once eggs are retrieved they are taken to the IVF lab where they are combined with the Sperm of your partner or donor if need be. There are two ways fertilization takes place one is sperm is carefully washed and prepared then a set amount is combined with eggs in a petri dish and left over night for magic to happen. Second way is ICSI ( intracytoplasmic sperm injection) with ICSI the embryologist will pick out individual sperm and manually inject each egg. After the eggs are fertilized they are referred to as Embryos they are closely monitored and you will receive updates from Dr. or lab. Depending on how many embryos your have they might continue to monitor the embryos to blastocyst stage.



#6.Embryo Transfer:
Once you discuss and decide on how many embryos to transfer the Dr. will carefully transfer selected embryos into uterus with a small catheter. Close attention is placed on putting the embryo in just the right spot to help with a healthy implantation of embryo on the uterine wall. Extra embryos are then frozen for a FET (frozen embryo transfer) which will take place at a later date if wanted. Some Dr. prefer to do a FET rather than a Fresh cycle.



#7. Pregnancy test:
After embryo(s) are placed nothing else to do but wait! Takes time to see if procedure is a success. You will go back to Clinic for a blood test to confirm success or not.




This is an outline of a basic IVF cycle some are different depending on clinic and personal cycle needs.

Hope this helps explaine IVF! 

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Retrieval day

                        
Sunday was the big day we had been waiting for, we had been preparing mentally and physically for this day. We made the drive to Thousand Oaks on Saturday so we would have time to relax and didn't have to be up so early and rush the day of. We got to our hotel Saturday and unloaded all the snacks I had purchased for after my procedure all my friends who had been through this said to have high sodium after to help with the bloating, I got pickles (thanks to my mother in law and her knowledge that pickles have tons of sodium), goldfish, granola bars and Gatorade. After resting we headed out for dinner we ended up at outback and had a great dinner discussing our soon to be kids! We headed back to the hotel after dinner and just relaxed I was a bit worried about the time change and missing our appointment or alarm after calling in a wake up call from my father in law I was able to head to bed. Morning came early and I was starving only to remember I couldn't eat or drink till after the retrieval, the hotel smelled like breakfast talk about torture. We arrived to the Dr. Office and my nerves started filled out all the paper work and then it was time they called us back, I got all dressed in my gown, robe, and hair cover. I felt more like a celebrity at a medical spa then at a Dr. Office. My nurse came in and went over everything with us then I was taken to the procedure room, I held back my tears as I left Greg always the worst part for me. The nurse got me in the bed and bundled me up put heating pads on my arms and started to prep me, she got my iv in and gave me something to relax me Dr. K came in and said hi and went to scrub in. Next thing I know I was waking up and we were done seemed so quick Greg was waiting for me in recovery and they told us the wonderful news they were able to retrieve 18 eggs!!! I was in some pain they gave me a shot to help with pain and one I was fully awake they got ready to discharge me. Greg took such great care of me he got me some food and then took me back to the hotel and let me sleep off the meds. I felt pretty good that night so we went to dinner and got some frozen yogurt I think the yogurt was my favorite part. I was in some pain when we got back to the hotel so I called it a night and headed to bed. Monday morning we headed home after breakfast at the hotel. Monday afternoon Dr. K called to let is know 15 of our 18 eggs fertilized I was so excited I am now a proud momma of 15! 

Will update soon as we get more info about our 15 praying they continue to thrive and grow! 

                                         
                                                   All dressed and ready for procedure!
                                 
                                                 All done and waking up!
                          





Friday, March 7, 2014

Almost time......

Its almost time for retrieval! Yup already hard to believe this past 2 weeks have been full of trips back and forth to the RE and injections but we have almost made it to the next huge step. Let me update you on what has been going on this week.


Monday I made the 3 hour drive to Thousand Oaks to see our RE who I love without him I am not sure we would be to this point! I had my blood drawn to monitor estrogen levels and had my date with Mr. Wand (ultrasound machine) Dr. was very happy with results as this far which made me happy! after a great appointment I made my stop for lunch at Taco Bell my favorite place and headed home. I got the call when I got to home that my lab results came back amazing and I would be adding in another injection to my nightly routine. I grabbed all my medicine and headed out the door for Bible study I enjoy my Monday night time with the ladies there and they are so supportive of our IVF journey. So far I have done injections at our friends house while there for dinner and now Bible study oh the stories I will have for my children!
Tuesday and Wednesday I watched my friends kids and had to make the easy decision that I can now only wear yoga pants or stretchy pants the meds make me so bloated that I am worried when I go into public someone might ask me when I am due :/ another lovely side effect. Wednesday my husband even came home with flowers for me!!! For those of you that know us know how big this is I am always giving him a hard time about how I never get flowers.
Thursday I made the 3 hour trip back to the RE to be checked blood work and date with Mr. Wand I decided to give him a name since we have dates so often haha anyway Dr. K was super impressed with me and decided he didn't need to see me until retrieval day Eeeekkk! They gave me all my instructions and sent me on my way.
Friday(Today) I am packing getting ready for my procedure this am I took my last 225iu of Follistim hopefully ever! and tonight I will be taking the last injection of Menopur again hopefully ever! and then triggering ovulation and in 35 hours from then I will be getting set for retrieval!
I  don't know if its the hormones or what but as I type this I am crying, I am crying because we have come so far and being done with injections means we are closer to our goal of our babyshoes!!! I am truly so thankful for all the love and support we get from each and everyone of you without you all I am not sure I could do all this!
I will update as soon as I can on how retrieval goes and how many eggs we are able to get!


I will leave you with some picutres from this week....
Flowers from my hubby! 
My fastly filling sharps container
Progress of my follicles 
My super bloated belly and giving myself and injection!

Saturday, March 1, 2014

"Shot,shots,shots....everybody"

Lol every time I hear that song now it has new meaning for me. I am currently day 4 of the follistim and Menopur shots all is going well I am now after 3 years able to do my own injections proud moment for me!!! We went to the dr yesterday (Friday) and all is going as planned which is great news!!!! He gave us the weekend off from traveling the 3 hours and some change down to see him. Today since we were given the weekend off we ran some errands and purchased our birthday/anniversary gifts to each other two rocker recliners that will match our couch Greg says they will be perfect for rocking our amazing IVF baby/babies! Tonight we are watching movies and relaxing tomorrow same thing before traveling back to dr. Monday and back Monday night for my bible study! Have a great weekend everyone I'm headed back to be lazy and watch some movies with my hubby and furry kids. First I will leave you with some pics from this week.

Friday on our way to doctor we had bad weather lots of accidents.

Nightly cocktail of Menopur